“I’m sure I could make it work,” the actress and television host admitted, “but I’ve really come to the conclusion that I’m not sure it would be fair to a child.”
Melissa Rivers provides an update on the addition of a new kid to her family.
On Sunday, the 54-year-old actress and television host shared her sentiments about adopting a kid on the podcast Behind The Velvet Rope, saying that her feelings have evolved in a new direction.
“Many people told me how impossible it would be for me to do. I’m in my fifties. I’m a solitary individual… I’m confident I could make it work, but I’m not convinced it would be fair to a child. I’m not entirely convinced that it would be equitable. Is it true that I’m entirely out of the market? No, not at all “Rivers told David Yontef, the host of the show.
“But I don’t want to…people say, “Well, you could work with special needs kids, and they’re having a great time.” And I think about it, but I also wonder if it’s truly fair. Is it reasonable? It all boiled down to that. I was also warned how tough it would be for me to achieve it, as was everyone else.”
She went on to say, “You must check yourself and put someone else’s needs ahead of your own or someone else’s. Is it still something I want? a hundred percent Do I believe it is the correct course of action? I’m no longer sure. And believe me, that understanding has made me cry a lot at night.”
Melissa Rivers Has Been Thinking About Adoption for Years: It’s ‘Not Something I’m Taking Lightly,’ as the saying goes.
Rivers and ex-husband John Endicott have a 21-year-old son named Edgar Cooper Endicott. They married in 1998 and divorced in 2003.
Rivers stated she has been pondering adoption for years in August of 2021.
Rivers stated she had “been thinking about it for a very long time” on the Chanel in the City with Chanel Omari podcast at the time.
“I’ve been considering it for approximately six years. You know, it feels like the absolute correct option at times, and it doesn’t feel like the right decision at other times “Rivers stated. “It’s clear that this isn’t something I’m taking lightly. I’d estimate I’m about 80% of the way there. What really gets to me is this: would it be fair for the child to have, you know, a little bit of an older parent now that he or she is older?”
“Not that there’s anything wrong with it,” Rivers remarked, “because I’m obviously pretty busy,” but “it’s a lot to think about.” There are a number of critical things to consider. Yes, there are a couple of issues I’m still pondering.”
She also expressed remorse for not preserving her eggs when she was younger, as her late mother, legendary comic Joan Rivers, advised her to do.
Rivers stated at the time, “I wish I had listened to my mother, who wanted me to retrieve eggs when I was in my 30s.” “‘No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no ‘I should have done it!’ I think now. But that’s fine. Again, I’m extremely close to saying yes, but there are a few issues that keep me awake at night.”